Preparing for a psychic reading? Not sure what to ask? Read this.

zodianz diary: Preparing for a psychic reading? Not sure what to ask? Read this.

If it's your first time, don't worry.

I get people that are unsure of what to ask, but know that they need guidance. But for what? That’s the real question.

Usually people fall under my three c’s of guidance: clarity, confirmation, or closure.

  1. You either want clarity on a situation that is causing you confusion;
  2. confirmation for where your life is headed and need validation;
  3. or you want closure on an emotional situation that is causing you a lot of stress or grief.

Sometimes people fall in one, two, or all.

When I start out with my readings, I always prep ahead of time. I lay out the cards and invite your angels and spirit guides to come and sit with me. I pray to God and ask him to show love and compassion in our reading, and to help me gain a higher perspective.

I lay out the cards and invite your angels and spirit guides to come and sit with me.

After they arrive, I start to listen to the messages. You will not be able to hide what is needed to know at that point. Like I said before, “The more direct a question. The more direct the answer.”

I happen to like more direct questions. I’m always curious to know the answer because as much as you want to know, so do I.

“The more direct a question. The more direct the answer.”


So what are considered direct questions?

Direct questions are just that – direct. As in, “Is this person the right one for me? Will I have success in the future? What do I need to do clear this negative energy? Will I have babies? Will I get married?” etc. Just make sure it's something your heart and soul want answered.

Just make sure it's something your heart and soul want answered.

Now, it’s best to understand that not all your questions will be answered. You have to think of your angels and spirit guides as people - kinda. When I ask them to sit with me, I am meeting them for the very first time. They have a hard time telling me anything if you are unsure of what to ask.

If it’s general, they will give general advice. If it’s direct, they will give more direct advice. As the session progresses, I hear them more clearly and the words they are trying to express – sharing with me things that will provide the highest good from the highest power: God.

If it’s general, they will give general advice. If it’s direct, they will give more direct advice.

Please keep in mind: Yes, spirits can give direct advice, but rarely will they provide decisive advice. You have to learn the difference between the two. Direct advice is given upon the question. They will only lay out options for you to choose from. Ultimately, it is up to you to take charge of your life and make decisive actions.

Ultimately, it is up to you to take charge of your life and make decisive actions.

A lot of times the messages are very cryptic and short. These spirits are trying to share with me your life in a summary. They come in small words or phrases that don’t make sense to me, but will make sense to you. Also, good to note, I am not you.

They are attempting to share with me things that relate to you but that I can interpret. So they’ll share words and phrases I’ll know and are able to write. As the session goes on, it'll be easier for me to understand and they usually take over the session after you get comfortable.

A lot of times the messages are very cryptic and short. These spirits are trying to share with me your life in a summary.

A lot of feedback has almost always been, “How did you know that?” And to be honest, I’m hearing it all for the very first time from your spirits.


So will you tell my future or not?

They (the spirits) will tell me only what is needed and nothing more. If there is nothing to be seen it’s usually because you haven’t chosen a path. Angels and spirit guides, just like God, are unable to pick for you. That’s the universal law: free will. Your higher spirits only want to help empower you. If they start picking left and right, then you’ll have no power of your own.

Your higher spirits only want to help empower you.

You have to trust the messages being provided – they are in your best interest. Once you decide what is best for you, they will have your back and help you, but you have to be aware of the messages and ask for their help. It’s why people seek advice from psychics.


But I really need to know what to do. How can you help me?

It’s the reason why I am here and why I have been chosen. If they are unable to give a more direct answer, then they’ll ask me to take over and give you human advice. I’ll take a stance on their behalf and tell you which direction I believe you should go. Of course, I will always tell you when it’s me or if it is them.

If they are unable to give a more direct answer, then they’ll ask me to take over and give you human advice.

That’s the beauty of a spiritual session with a psychic medium. You not only get advice from the higher spirits, but you receive human advice. Higher spirits don’t understand what it’s like to be human and all the complex emotions that go into it. They only understand the good of humanity and what each person can do to become the best of themselves, which isn’t a bad thing.


There is a right time to receive these messages. Don’t rush the process. Fate has a way of bringing people together, and every person that has received messages from me have always been brought by God. For if I have the ability to help you, I will do so.

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My Name's Joan Zodianz

I am a natural astrologist, tarot reader, and psychic medium: you can learn more about me here.

I see myself as a vessel of energies (spiritually, emotionally, mentally, and physically), and I have made a promise to God to deliver his messages to you. I communicate only with archangels, angels, and spirit guides.

I use a combination of energy reading, tarot cards, angel oracle cards, and astrology.

MY MISSION: To serve only the living and serve the highest good, and devote myself to the highest power (God).

To Empower, Enlighten, and Educate.

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