The Fear of Letting Go of Someone We Love
Love is such a complicated emotion. We invest so much in others that we forget to use that energy for ourselves. The angels and I have pulled these cards to make sense of bad relationships and how to get past them.
We invest so much in others that we forget to use that energy for ourselves.
5-Card Spread (left to right)
The 3 of Chalices (Cancer), The Chariot (Cancer), 9 of Swords (Gemini), on top is the 2 of Chalices (Cancer), and last card is the Knave of Swords (air element).
The meaning of the tarot cards
Very often we find ourselves holding onto someone who has turned their backs on us (Knave of Swords). Notice how he’s ready to walk away at any given notice. He is looking for freedom and independence. He is the element of air, and the element of air is distant from emotions altogether. This can even pertain to a woman turning away from love, not just men.
Very often we find ourselves holding onto someone who has turned their backs on us (Knave of Swords).
Next to the Knave is the 9 of Swords with the 2 of Chalices sitting on top. What this means is that hidden behind our ideal relationship are fears and insecurities. There are a lot of couples that are together and put up a show for the public, only to come home and love isn’t really there.
To the left is The Chariot. This tarot card is associated with the zodiac sign Cancer, the sign of heart and home. Notice how it pushes forward and away from the Knave. It tells us that we should move in another direction and leave behind things that don’t love us. We need to fulfill our emotional needs and protect our hearts and homes.
It tells us that we should move in another direction and leave behind things that don’t love us.
Lastly, the 3 of Chalices tells us that if we move forward, as The Chariot suggests, we will find a new world where we will create something better and more emotionally fulfilling. You will also notice that the 3 of Chalices, The Chariot, and the 2 of Chalices are all associated with the zodiac sign: Cancer.
...we will find a new world where we will create something better and more emotionally fulfilling.
The Zodiac Cancer in love can cling onto emotions aggressively. They aren’t they type to give up on anybody, always hoping that they can restore any love lost.
When you have that many Cancers in your reading it tells me that you’re on an emotional roller-coaster, so if you’re reading this then it’s most likely meant for your eyes to read ?
The Fear of Letting Go
It’s always scary when we know we’re in a bad relationship. I mean, you invest so much time and so many emotions into one person.
Every relationship requires 50/50 in emotions and values. It’s how you become one. You shouldn’t be giving 75% and that person only giving 25%.
And therefore, it’s very difficult to get out of a bad relationship because you’ve given up so much of yourself, but ask yourself this: has your lover given up any part of themselves? Is it 50%?
Every relationship requires 50/50 in emotions and values.
Long story short, there are a lot of people that hold onto a dying relationship because they’re afraid of what will happen to them, or they’re too afraid to lose that person because they love them so much.
So what happens when you let go?
You will find yourself emotionally and grow from within.
You must recharge the energy lost and strengthen yourself internally. And it may take time to do it, unless you prefer to be unhappy and miserable with a person who just doesn’t love you. You don’t want that, right?
You must recharge the energy lost and strengthen yourself internally.
It’s reality and it’s harsh to think of someone not loving you back. I feel it. Trust me, been there, done that. So yes, you can let go and no you won’t be alone forever.
There are so many times that our angels and spirit guides are trying to pull us away so they can open our eyes to something or someone better.
...our angels and spirit guides are trying to pull us away so they can open our eyes to something or someone better.
You just have to trust in them.
If you’re having a hard time letting go of someone, just take your time. All things that need to be revealed will be revealed when it’s time. However, if you’re just ignoring the signs then you need to confront them even though you’re afraid.
All things that need to be revealed will be revealed when it’s time.
You don’t have to wait to see the final sign to know a situation is bad for you. You just have to follow your intuition and love yourself enough to know what you’re worth.
...follow your intuition and love yourself enough to know what you’re worth.
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My Name's Joan Zodianz
I am a natural astrologist, tarot reader, and psychic medium: you can learn more about me here.
I see myself as a vessel of energies (spiritually, emotionally, mentally, and physically), and I have made a promise to God to deliver his messages to you. I communicate only with archangels, angels, and spirit guides.
I use a combination of energy reading, tarot cards, angel oracle cards, and astrology.
MY MISSION: To serve only the living and serve the highest good, and devote myself to the highest power (God).
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