October 23 – November 21
Planet: Pluto and Mars
Motto: “I Desire”
By Joan Zodianz | copyright 2017
Scorpios are the hypnotists of the zodiac. Ruled by two planets: Pluto and Mars. Their auras are naturally intense, deep, intuitive, spiritual mysterious, alluring, and hypnotic. People see this as the sign of sex, but that’s far from the truth in most cases. They actually hate being affiliated with that trait. They don’t go around sleeping with just anybody. In fact, they are one the most pickiest signs of the zodiac. They can be as dangerous as their symbol, the Scorpion, but they only unleash their stinger should they be threatened. They don’t go around looking for trouble, their sign just attracts dangerous situations, lol. It is what it is, and it’s also the reason why they are gifted with so many inner strengths: high intuition, regeneration, and transformation.
They are one of the most misunderstood signs of the zodiac, but it’s because they aren’t the talkative type either (as in they aren’t the type to brag or spill the beans on anything or anyone). They are sensitive to their environment, so they protect their vulnerabilities at all cost. As a fixed sign, they find self-control highly valuable. They want to be in control of themselves and, at times, others. When threatened or insecure, they can go for a direct assault or passive aggressiveness. If they choose the latter then expect them to be jealous, possessive, manipulative and secretive. Trust is the number one factor for them, and this spills into everything they do (people included). Scorpios can be very strategic in their thinking, which is why they’re known to be vengeful and spiteful (like their stinger). However, most times they are not like that at all. Just don’t cross them or give them any reason not to trust you.
Now that we got the warnings out of the way, let’s skip to the best parts of a Scorpio. As a regenerative sign, they are always deep in thought and emotion. They are always searching for more meaning in their lives, so they’ll plan it out very carefully. They’re not the type to talk about it either. Most of them are planning away in their secret hideout, then suddenly out of nowhere they’re super successful in public. Scorpios are natural go-getters, so they don’t often ask for advice or direction. They just seem to know where they want to go and do it. They’re a fixed water sign, so they’ll go in whichever direction they seem fit and stick to that route.
Their motto is, “I desire.” Scorpios have a lot of secret desires and obsessions. You probably don’t know it because they aren’t the sharing type. And you’ll find a lot of things you don’t know about a Scorpio, even if you’ve known them for a really long time. A secret desire is something they cherish. Plus, they’re masters of secrets. Why should they tell you? This sign also likes to indulge in life’s greatest and simplest pleasures. They have a way of feeling everything out and seeing the best in everything. They make soul connections with everything and everyone. If they’re not feeling it, then it doesn’t exist in their world. They also like refinement, class, and luxury. Now, I’m not talking about just big named brands. It can even be a local brand, but that local brand must have the top reviews or else they ain’t buying it, lol.
You ready to get to the mystery of Scorpio? Read on.
If you’re dating a Scorpio, then you’re probably wondering why in the hell are you doing all the work. In the beginning phases of dating, this sign will sit back and watch. They’re not the type to go in all at once. Think of it like a game of poker. They’ve got the poker face down.
If they’re more aggressive, they might be a little direct in what they want, but then they’ll just observe from there. If they just want a hit and run, they’ll tell you. They can be cutthroat like that. If that’s the case, just run. I’m telling you now, get the f- out of there. Once they make a decision about you and the person that you are, it won’t change.
But if they’re dating you and spending valuable time with you, then you should already know they like you. If they didn’t like you, they wouldn’t date you. Time is very precious to this sign. Time to think about you, time to spend with you, time to feel you, and time to work for your love. And that’s what it really comes down to, how far are you willing to go to wait for their love? This is a fixed water sign, so it’s always good to keep in mind that as much as they’re withholding their feelings, they can also hold onto their feelings for someone with the same strength and discipline.
Just make sure that when you’re going out with them, that you don’t do anything to turn them off by moving too fast or giving them the attention when you’re out. They don’t need fake people disrupting their lives. Even though this sign can be highly sexual, they don’t go around wanting to share a bed with everyone they meet. They will stare into your eyes and get a gist of your soul, so if you’re not serious about love then you can go. Don’t do anything that will make them think they can’t trust you.
How do I know if they love me?
It can take a lot of time to get to the core of a Scorpio. They hate to be vulnerable, so they’ll wait it out until it’s safe to come out. They’ll make sure you do it first, but if they’re just deep in their emotions then they’ll subtly hint it out. If you take hold of their love, be prepared for eternity. They aren’t the type to change partners frequently. They want life with their lover, even after death.
They are one of the deepest and intense partners you will ever have in your lifetime. They want your souls to merge into one, and they want to be possessed as much as they want to possess you. And I don’t mean in a controlling type of way, only a soulful kind of way. Once you get to this level of love with them, expect them to connect with you physically like nobody else before. Then you’ll understand why they’re the most sought-after sign when it comes to making love.
When it comes to other areas of love, you’ll find a partner that will do the most for their lover. They will ensure that everyone gets their fill of emotions. They are also very logical, so if you want something done then it will be (if it’s within reason). They can be highly stubborn at times though, so just make sure you aren’t bossing them around for stupid reasons. It has to make sense to their soul, lol.
How do I know if they stop loving me?
You will know if they stop loving you when they go back into hiding their feelings. If you messed up, then they might withhold everything from you: mentally, emotionally, and definitely physically. They won’t even have the heart to make it work. They can turn themselves off real quick, but it doesn’t mean they’re ready to detach from you. As long as it took to love you, it may very well take them as long to get over you. To them, they didn’t just invest all this time with you for nothing. But if the damage is too much for them, just expect your ending to be fatal. They most likely will just leave you, even if they still love you. Time can’t be spent on loving you anymore, they’ll return to their secret cave and start regenerating their emotions.
If they’re the ones who messed up, then just expect them to not want to detach from you. Especially if they’re the controlling type. They might even find ways to manipulate the situation to get back in your good graces. Just be careful and ask yourself if it’s worth keeping. Learn from a Scorpio, if the trust is broken then so is the relationship.
Be with this sign if you like…
Be with a Scorpio if you want a deep soul connection, if you want eternity with someone, if you like intensity, like having someone who wants to spend time with you even if you’re not talking, and if you want to be with someone who likes a lot of privacy. If you’re the type who can keep a secret, likes to be emotionally possessive, and has enough stamina to keep the love going, then by all means go out with a Scorpio – forever.