January 20 – February 18
Symbol: Water Bearer
Planet: Uranus and Saturn
Motto: “I Know”
By Joan Zodianz | copyright 2017
Aquarians are highly intellectual openminded individuals. They have a strong need to have physical, emotional and mental distance from situations and even people, believing that it’s better to take an unbiased and unemotional approach to everything and everyone. It’s not uncommon for this sign to have and share different perspectives, making sure to take into account everyone’s point of view. They can be quite talkative because of this, okay a lot lol. They’re also very humorous and playful, and will take things lightly, making sure not to get too heavy hearted about any one topic.
Even though they can put themselves into other people’s shoes, they aren’t the type to dismiss their own personal beliefs just to fit in. They are a fixed sign for a reason. Though they are very open to hearing and considering other people’s opinions, it doesn’t mean they’ll bend their own beliefs easily. In fact, they are very stubborn when it comes to what they believe. They have a strong belief in right and wrong, thus the reason why they are considered a very friendly humanitarian sign.
Their motto is “I know,” so just keep in mind that they tend to say this a lot. They can be quite a big know it all, but they really do research everything just to make sure they never sound like an idiot. They hate that. Aquarius is also a very social sign, so they’ll want to experience what it’s like to be with different groups of people who are quite different from one another. It helps them learn – good and bad.
When they like someone it may be hard to tell. They treat everyone the same: like a friend. Being a fixed sign means they have strong self-control. Even if they possess strong feelings for someone, they’ll try hard not to show it. If you’re dating one, you will most likely be experiencing a coming and going feeling with them. Distance is key to their lifestyle, and this isn’t the most expressive sign of the zodiac either. They don’t like to be vulnerable at all, so finding out if they like you will be like trying to figure out a Rubix cube. Good luck lol.
Just like air, they can be up close and personal one day and non-existent the next. This is a common problem from others, but in their eyes they just aren’t sure whether to be close to you or not. They aren’t the type to smother someone too soon (they’ll save that for later lol), so they’ll keep you at a safe distance until you prove you can be someone worthwhile. They also want to be sure that you’re someone who won’t take everything way too seriously too soon. They take their time when dating, making sure you won’t interfere with whatever they have going on. This is a very independent sign and they take their careers very seriously. If you’re not a priority then you’re not a priority, take it as is.
If you’re unsure of what to do, then take the friendlier approach; and always keep in mind that this sign can disappear on you without explaining shit if you decide to move too fast or are too aggressive. This sign also requires a lot of mental stimulation, so if you’re not someone they can have meaningless, as well as meaningful, debates with then forget moving forward with them.
How do I know if they love me?
You must’ve done something amazing or you’re Superman/Wonder Woman if you got past the stage of if they like me or not. Once they love someone, they’ll blanket and consume that person with a never-ending air of love, loyalty and appreciation. They’ll be super attached to you like no other. They want to be the air you breathe because you’ll be theirs. However, don’t assume they’ll give up everything for you. They still want to remain independent, but when it comes to people they love they can sacrifice what’s needed to prove their loyalty. Be careful, though. If you ask for too much, you’ll end up on the streets where they found you lol.
If they love you, they’ll make sure to involve you in everything they do. They are very thoughtful and generous individuals. They have a good memory for things that make you smile. They are also very open in conversation, so anything that you want they’ll most likely find enough reason to give it to you. Just make sure you do the same (key factor). If you need space, all you need to do is say it. Just don’t stay away too long or they’ll start to get anxious. You really don’t want to see the type of storm they’ll cause if they find out or suspect you’re up to no good. It’s up to you if you want heaven or hell.
Aquarius is one sign you can depend on to do the right thing. They make sure that their choices in life benefit, not only themselves, but people they care for. They want to be fair to everyone. If you take this choice away from them or start demanding unfair choices from them, you’ll find your loved one slipping away into depression. So always be fair to them and always make sure you’re able to carry your own weight. Also, Aquarians have a strong sense of justice, and will get really defensive if you tell them they’re wrong or if they’re a bad person.
How do I know if they stop loving me?
If an Aquarius stops loving you then just like dating, it may be hard to tell. It’s not uncommon for this sign to stay with someone longer than they should. They’re not the type to give up too easily on someone. But they also may be trying to figure out, at their own pace, if this is a relationship that can last forever. If you developed a strong friendship with them in the beginning, then this is one sign you can count on being with for a lifetime. But if you rushed in too soon, then you may have to worry later.
Forever for an Aquarius is difficult for them to imagine, so if somewhere along the way they were very lovable but now very distant (even if they’re next to you), then you’re in trouble. If you’re not providing enough mental stimulation, then they’ll grow bored very quickly. Remember, this is an air sign. They need to feel a mental connection with someone aside from an emotional one. Lose their attention, you lose their love.
Once they’re over someone, they’ll disconnect from them very slowly. At first it’ll be mental, then emotional, then physical. Once they’re gone, they’re gone. There’s no way of getting them back, not even as a friend.
Be with this sign if you like…
Be with an Aquarius if you want a forever friend, and if you don’t mind being with someone who will be attached to you completely. Don’t worry, it won’t be too overwhelming. If you like a sign that is always fair, thoughtful, non-judgmental, and always willing to do the most for people they love, then this is a sign for you.
If you’re the type that is also fair, doesn’t mind a little distance, aren’t afraid to share your opinions, humanitarian, possess superman/wonder woman traits, can talk about everything under the sun and moon, funny and playful, then you’re the right person for them.